The problem with putting off things you've always wanted to do
is that eventually you run out of always.
~Robert Brault
Tuesday, March 24, 2015
A busy couple weeks in Perigord.
Life is pretty “normal” now – typical days at Denis & Vivi’s: we take walks, work around the house,
I paint, and we visit friends for a few days.
There is a great path just below the hill where the house sits that goes down through the woods and can go
for kilometers in either direction. Périgueux has an group that organizes and cares for these paths. There the light streams between the trees, rich mosses and ivy on the north
side of the path that slants upward catching the sunrays from the south. The light and texture inspire me. It is quiet at the base of the ravine,
except for birds chirping, and occasional woodpecker, and the crunch of the
flint rocks underfoot (that give one a good chance to either strengthen or
twist ankles). Other paths come
and leave for acres and acres.
Some are marked with simple posts topped in blue or empty plastic
bottles. Large fallen trees aim
mostly north to south telling a story of a wild storm in 1999. These woods are lovely, sun-dappled,
and deep (Robert Frost running through my mind but adjusted to fit my
situation) – but I have no major promises to keep. Miles I will go and it doesn’t matter when I sleep. I’m walking in Paradise.
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Old friends |
I have spent nearly a month of
travel to visit various friends:
Eva in Valencia, Spain,
Annamaria in Bologna, Italy, and Agnès and Patrice in Lyon, France. Back at Payenché for a couple
days then off to visit friends of Vivi and Denis (and Chanh and Mimi) in
Poitiers: Ives and Ingrid. They all knew each other when they
lived in New York City and took an English class together. To this day they all maintain
contact. As I get to know each of
these people (I knew Chanh first when we were at the University together) I
find they are all great people.
Complete in character and at peace with themselves. Not enough people find themselves in
such a self-fulfilled condition in life.

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Poitiers |
Ives and Ingrid now live in the Vieux Ville section of
Poitiers, France, and there are the typical twelfth to sixteenth century
buildings all around, many have façades in the Tudor style. Their building is renovated from a ruin
in 2000 (Ives tells us) by a man who purchased the building for about 20,000€ and invested about 300,000€ for remodeling. He then sold it at a loss. Some of the elements of the apartment
are authentic but others are simply for an antique appearance. Their “house” includes the atrium
garden and the third through fifth floors. It is charming with their collections of paintings, antique
etched spritzer bottles of various colors, painted eggs, and a terracotta
sculpture of a young girl that belonged to Ives’ grandmother.

Sunday afternoon we attend a wine
festival where various vineyards offer samples of their reds, whites, rosés,
and sparkling wines. I got
to try two or three, but it was so busy, that was about all I could acquire, so
I focused on my favorites of Malbec and Bergerac. Denis and Ives both purchased a couple cases. Better to buy directly from the
producers and skip the middleman.
I wish I could, but I do not have enough room in my suitcase. (I did find one vineyard whose name was
“Barbem” … so close!)
Back to Payenché and we garden, I paint, we
visit friends, Vivi cooks, Denis finishes the sink cabinet. There was a bit of
sunshine last weekend so Vivi took advantage and cut the backyard yew into a
large bonsai. We go to Chez Poète
one day and visit Vivi’s father.
The house, high on a hill in Celles, has been in her family for six
generations. Last time I was here
we stayed for a couple weekends.
This day we just have a quick visit then return for an evening of local
musicians and a food/fund raiser in Saint Astier.
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Montignac |
A couple days
later we meet up with a young American student, Emily, who is completing her
Bates College degree requirements here in Périgueux teaching English at a local
school, and we head to Montignac.
Home of the Lascaux Caverns and Vivi’s brother Armel. He and his wife have a restaurant on
the edge of the Vezere River where we spent a number of weekends during my last
visit. It was good to see them all
and enjoy their great family-recipe “pizza” and meal.
After we took the long way back to Périgueux through the
Dordogne valley past many Cro-Magnon, troglodyte, and medieval cave towns and châteaus. This area is
amazing. So much to know and see
and experience – and it is just plain beautiful. I remark: “The
Cro-Magnon sure knew how to pick the spots!”
Southwest France. One week to Maine.

This week is cold and damp. We are visiting
Madeleine in St.Jean-de-Marsac.
She is the widow of a potter who was well known in the area. He threw and she painted the designs on
the pottery. It is a large, old
house but not of the same era as Payenché. Madeleine is a wonderful lady, energetic, happy, and tiny. (I think she comes up to my shoulder.)

We head to the beach-side just to see
the ocean and golden sand, then toward Capbreton where there are extraordinary
high and low tides now. Madeleine
has photos from a bit ago of the ocean covering the streets and filling the
subterranean parking lot. This day
the sailboats in the marina are sitting in water that is so shallow that three
ski-jet riders need to get off their machines to push their jets out into the
deeper water. The inlet streams
are draining back into the ocean over cascades that are about four or five feet
high. Normally one would not even
be aware that they exist.
Madeleine has not seen such tides in her lifetime here.
Unprecedented!

Friends are in and out. Neighbor Dominique and author/potter
Chris who is from outside Auch, just west of Toulouse. Chris is publishing a book-journal that
she created after a pilgrimage through 88 Buddhist temples on the Japanese
island of Shikoku. She has also
completed a pilgrimage of Saint James Way (El Camino Santiago known mostly by
the Martin Sheen movie “The Way”).
We will visit one
more friend before returning to Payenché this weekend. Vivi wants to have an
open-house to invite friends by for aperitif, to see my artwork I’ve created
this trip and to say “à la prochaine”. One week remaining. Then I head back to Maine. (I am really hoping the sunny weather
there for the next few days will melt away much of the remaining snow there). Ready to see my family and friends, yet
so torn because I love France and my dear friends here. Vivi and Denis have opened their hears
and home and friends and family to me. It is such a blessing to me. They will never realize how wonderful it is for me to have them in my life. They are absolutely amazing people - I can barely begin to explain it.
I kid them and say that I’m the “American Cousin”. But it feels that way to me.
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Sunset at Payenché last week |
Thanks to the cloudy, damp weather, I am more
ready now to head home than I have been before. I am getting excited for the group trip during the third
week of April when I have twelve with me to go to the Côte d’Azur (the French
Riviera), Cassis, Monaco, Arles, and Paris. I’m willing to pay the Cloud Piper now if it means we can
have the sunshine for that trip!
I can always come back to Aquitaine in
the summer...
The question for each man is not what he would do if he had the means,
time, influence, and educational advantages,
but what he will do with
the things he has.
~Hamilton
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